> No More Secrets And Lies: Visiting Mary at North Homes

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Visiting Mary at North Homes

As Christmas 2008 neared, the County offered to reimburse Karen and me for our mileage to Grand Rapids to visit Mary — a 500 mile round trip. This was the first time they had offered us something like this, and although a nice gesture on their part, I thought it was odd that they felt they had to create a work-around to a problem that could have been avoided if they had placed Mary closer to her home in the first place, like she and I had asked them to do.

I didn't take their reimbursement, but I did visit Mary, and I took Josie and Grace with me. Josie was home for Christmas, and the three girls hadn't been together in a long time. Mary didn't know her sisters were coming, and Josie and Grace hid behind a couch in the visiting room and then jumped out when Mary entered the room. Mary was extremely glad to see them. It was a nice surprise for her and a delight for me to see all three of my daughters together again.

After Christmas, Mary moved again. This time from the North Homes shelter to their secure unit. I didn't know about this until I talked to the North Homes staff one afternoon. Mary's workers weren't telling me much of anything at this point — I was being kept out of the loop. But I always told them and the others on the team whatever I found out about Mary. They may have already known most of this, and I might have only been telling them that I knew it too — that, in fact, I wasn't out of the loop yet.


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